Time and Sound...嵗月流聲

Wednesday, February 18, 2009

Is getting down... down... and Down... look the same thing; but different feeling... drive the same driveway all the time, but the feeling is like very new to me.... why am i so emo.....

Friday, February 13, 2009

Twenty-Five of Me

My friend tag me on similar message that she wrote in Facebook; well I think is a good idea on writing it since I haven't write before. Is good to refresh myself on certain thing's about myself, and also let other know as who am I and what I had in my mind. Below are something that i had wrote in returned, just for the point of sharing...

Rules: Once you've been tagged, you are supposed to write a note with 25 random things, facts, habits, or goals about you. At the end, choose 25 people to be tagged. You have to tag the person who tagged you. If I tagged you, it's because I want to know more about you.

(To do this, go to “notes” under tabs on your profile page, paste these instructions in the body of the note, type your 25 random things, tag 25 people (in the right hand corner of the app) then click publish.)

1. I like blue, that's makes me a COOL LEO
2. I like Honey bubble tea, especially from Restaurant YES! Taiwan Subang Jaya
3. I like Carl's Junior, and I really like a lot....
4. I like a girl's who is quiet steady character and soft spoken, slim and medium height, so they can lean on my shoulder; but somehow I found that those girl that's loaded with certain "meat" makes me think that they are very sexy :p
5. I like to have birthday surprize, but somehow i didn't encounter before :p
6. I like to have slim body line, but somehow the lesser I ate, the more fat I gain :p
7. I like 5 star hotel when I travel, because of the comfortable bed...
8. My travel list (place that I would like to travel and I have not travel there before) will be (according) Shanghai, SuZhou, GuangZhou, Hong Kong, Taiwan, Perth, Sdyney, New Zealand, Visit all Europe Country in a month....
9. I love Starbucks Java Chip Frappacinos (thanks WeiJiin!!!!, for intro this drink to me)
10. I like Mercedes C Class
11. I START loving to read book, stay long hour around MPH
12. I would likes to encounter a holiday trip in Star Cruise, because i haven't try before (it doesn't worth for the price)
13. I love Karaoke session, but condition is not more than 4 persons in a time, so I can sing more :p
14. I would likes God to speak to me whenever I am doing my devotion :)
15. I like to have fellowship with my friend.... (drink tea session)
16. I am addicted to Hong Kong Drama
17. I like to watch movie in Cineleisure, Mutiara Damansara, MY
18. I like to Shop in Mid-Valley and Pavillion KL
19. I like to travel to place that I am not familiar with
20. I like to be transparent to others, as other's will transparent to me as well...
21. I like to use cash term instead oof credit card
22. I like to cook, but somehow I am not good in it...
23. I like to see city night view from the top of hill...
24. I like to write blog, so can I express myself the way I like...
25. I like massage, because it's relax and comfortable

Monday, February 2, 2009

Chinese New Year First Day:

It was great... bring my mum out to hot spring @ Sungkai Felda. It was great... i enjoy half boiled egg that been cooked in the hot spring... and then we book a family hot spring pool for RM75.00 an hour, personal pool and toilet are provided with very nice landscape setting... :-)

Chinese New Year Second Day:
Go and visit my relative at Sg. besi... that's where my home town is..... and then bring my mum to visity my Auntie... and then departed to Cineleisure Damansara to watch movie All well end well 2009... haha... very funny... at night of course have lou sang dinner and King Crab kelana Jaya... If who want to know more about the food, do gave me a call... i will give you my comment...

Chinese New Year Third Day:
Wake up Very early in the morning.... haiz.... CNY still need to wake up so early.... hehe... of course... is to prepare my trip to ipoh... well... Jacky Jacky... he can make it on time in front of my house... HAHA.... of course it was a good trip... "EAT" a lot of goodies in ipoh... the Popiah... The Chicken Rice, Chee Cheong Fan, White Coffee... Toasted Bread... Wah!!!!! so great!!!!! so is mty body weight... :-P Well.... most important is have a good fellowship with my friend's and their family member over there as well.....

Chinese New Year Forth Day:
Well basically nothing much to write about it today... because i was watch Gem of Life the whole day.... Downloaded until episod 70, but watch until 32 only.... need to catch up!!!! of course at night need to catch a bus to thailand... :-)

Chinese New Year Fifth til seventh Day:
First Morning in Hat Yai.... well.... after my first trip to Thailand 5 years ago, this is my second time in thailand... of course, this is my first visit to Hat Yai... Very excited because when i see this city, is really remind's me of Malaysia in 50's... hehe.... but i just got 1 comment about this whole trip.... The food is Very Expansive!!!!! will let you know more about the detail about the trip later in the blog....

Chinese New Year Eight Day:
Now... is very busy today, since is the first day of working.... need to pack-up a lot of thing's.... of course exam is around the weekend.... need to prepare for it.... assigment is coming.... but then ... it should be i going after the assigment.... i will felt better at this way... :-P

Saturday, January 24, 2009

Chinese New Year schedule.....
Cleaning the messed in the hse... checked
Buying New clothes for the Occasion... unchecked
preparing Ang Pow for Chinese New Year... Unchecked either
preparing currency note for vacation trip in Chinese New year... unchecked...
prepare for class exam after Chinese New Year... unchecked...

It was weird that you need to prepare exam for chinese new year... haiz... potong stim...... How come all this unfinished business keep coming around me each time.... ? haiz.... at least better then other people who is not in their home during the Chinese New Year.... Well this are my schedule as below:

First Day: Bring my mum go sungkai for the steam pool....
second day: visit relative...like usual in CNY... and then planning go to Ipoh...
third day: go Genting for a day trip.... of course i won't be around in the casino... may be playing in the theme park...
Forth day: Visit relative.... of course need to prepare for my Thailand trip as well... because will be departing at night in KL....
Fifth day: Hat Yai, Thailand...
Sixth Day: Hat Yai, Thailand...
Seventh Day: Hat Yai, Thailand.... at night attending family reunion dinner in puchong....

At least this CNY has a plan in advance.... :-) well.... then... Happy Chinese New Year to you and me myself as well... :-)

Saturday, January 17, 2009

Ah!!!!! Assigment is due around the corner!!!!! still no idea how to do it..... never encounter such a difficult task before!!!!! Never been through such a difficult subject before... almost 75% classes attended, still cannot catch the point of this "subject"!!!! hai..... "FINANCE" "FINANCE" "FINANCE"..... "IS NEVER EASY"..... hehe.... this few day's listening to the CNY song that compose by Malaysia DJ.... very nice le.... 988 and MY FM ..... enjoy the song even in tghe busy mood... :-)

Tuesday, January 13, 2009

Chinese New Year in Niu Che Xiu 牛車水





Last night have a visit at Niu Che Xiu... expect some great happening since there are promoting Disney of Chinese New Year in Malaysia, some more is been advertising in MYFM very good as well... since then I decided to take a visit there.... expected to be better then last year... but somehow I found out something different from what I expect...

1) A lot of shop and stall close down compare to last year Chinese New Year...
2) A lot of empty shop lot still available for rent....
3) The Chinese New year stuff is very least of variety
4) Haih.... talk about the Disney thing... Adult need to pay RM10 some more....

I cannot imagine they already at their most down time, i though they will have free entry for that... quick dissapointed...

Wednesday, January 7, 2009

Well.... finally is over!!!! All the tender is done... now is the time to do my own thing's.... after another night of unsleep suffering, all the thing's is SETTLEEEEEEE.... don't be so happy Daniel Chang, you still got thing's need to be done... PLanning housekeeping for CNY.... Shop for CNY... hai.... may be shop in Thailand and Singapore..... just leave myself more time for the housekeeping... OK.... need to go back and sleep now...tata....

Tuesday, January 6, 2009

I received this e-mail from 1 of my friend in college, it was funny, hope you like it. And for the girl's, PLEASE have some sense of humor :)

Detail of E-mail:

I never quite figured out why the sexual urge of men and women differ so much. And I never have figured out the whole Venus and Mars thing. I have never figured out why men think with their head and women with their heart.

FOR EXAMPLE:

One evening last week, my girlfriend and I were getting into bed. Well, the passion starts to heat up, and she eventually says, 'I don't feel like it, I just want you to hold me.'

I said, 'WHAT??!! What was that?!'

So she says the words that every boyfriend on the planet dreads to hear...

'You're just not in touch with my emotional needs as a woman enough for me to satisfy your physical needs as a man.'

She responded to my puzzled look by saying, 'Can't you just love me for who I am and not what I do for you in the bedroom?'

Realizing that nothing was going to happen that night, I went to sleep.

The very next day I opted to take the day off of work to spend time with her. We went out to a nice lunch and then went shopping at a big, big unnamed department store. I walked around with her while she tried on several different very expensive outfit s. She couldn't decide which one to take, so I told her we'd just buy them all. She wanted new shoes to compliment her new clothes, so I said, 'Lets get a pair for each outfit.'

We went on to the jewelry department where she picked out a pair of diamond earrings. Let me tell you... she was so excited. She must have thought I was one wave short of a shipwreck. I started to think she was testing me because she asked for a tennis bracelet when she doesn't even know how to play tennis

I think I threw her for a loop when I said, 'That's fine, honey.' She was almost nearing sexual satisfaction from all of the excitement. Smiling with excited anticipation, she finally said, 'I think this is all
dear, let's go to the cashier.'

I could hardly contain myself when I blurted out, 'No honey, I don't feel like it.'

Her face just went completely blank as her jaw dropped with a baffled, 'WHAT?'

I then said, 'Honey! I just want you to HOLD this stuff for a while. You're just not in touch with my financial needs as a man enough for me to satisfy your shopping needs as a woman.'

And just when she had this look like she was going to kill me, I added, 'Why can't you just love me for who I am and not for the things I buy you?'

Apparently I'm not having sex tonight either....but at least that bitch knows I'm smarter than her.

Monday, January 5, 2009

I have been done tender a while.... and I can tell you is not easy, especially you do it straight in a month.... every tender is so big.... i really burning up now.... my mind is blowing out... ahhhhhhhh!!!!!!!! Starting part of the year is busy, some more need CNY is around the corner. i have not plan how's the housekeeping is..... hai..... another tender is in... hope no more tender after this... so i can really plan well for my CNY. Now.... one side I am listening to worship song.... another side doing tender.... let God peace be with me.... :-)

Friday, January 2, 2009

Finally..... The first day of the new year has passed. ... First time in my life spending the whole New year day arranging my tender. Well, now is 2 Jan 2009, 7 am in the morning now, I can't believe after the hard work for the pass whole night, I still got energy to write this blog... :-P Well have to take a good rest because got wedding party tonight :-)

Wednesday, December 24, 2008

Pass up of tender... pass!!!!
received of new tender need to submit before end of this year.... pass also!!! :-P
preparation of Christmas.... Not pass!!!! still need a lot of time :-P
Planning of Vacation for Chinese New year session.... Not pass also!!!! still have not got my own plan yet!!! :-P

Countless of busyness.... countless of worry behind before can even plan for myself.... hai!!!!!! well..... " God, I pray you will put all my worries away and celebrate your birthday, and I pray that you will allow me to share this happiness of your birthday celebration with my friend as well, may your grace and mercy be with me, Amen!!! "

OK NOW!!! God blessing will be with me, finally.... :-) there's few happening thing's happen here!!! :

1) Another an hour and half for me to prepare myself to attend Primary school friend gathering dinner at Wing's cafe Puchong!!!!

2) Another less then Six Hours to Jesus Birthday!!!!

3) Another Less then 16 hours to prepare for my Church Chritmas service!!!!

4) Another less then 48 Hours to prepare a present for New baby party!!!!!

What a wonderful week!!!!! I like it!!!!! Thanks you Lord!!!!!!

Friday, December 19, 2008

busy month.... wedding dinner.... wedding dinner.... New born baby party.... New born baby party... comes continuously every weekend.... Christmas and New year is around the corner somemore.... very busy at the end of the year.... this month already rush for some tender... somemore exam and weekend class every week..... God!!!!!! i need to take a break!!!!!! let me count.... December i have attend 4 wedding dinner and 2 New born baby party... hai.... already break the record ever... so many invitation in a month.... haha!!!!!

Tuesday, December 16, 2008

Aiya... what a busy weekend!!!! need to help up my cousin wedding arrangement... after this have a short day trip in Genting.... the time is all filled up..... last night watch "The day the earth Stood still"... well 1 comment.... the story line is very bad!!!! the story is like no ending like that.... wasted my time.... other than that action scene is not bad only.... Hai!!!!! wasted my time

Friday, December 12, 2008

Hai.... Study Study Study..... but it is fun when you found a way to enjoy the enviroment where you study... i choose Coffee Bean Taipan... enjoying the Dark Hot Chocolate... is so nice... ;-) makes me want to study longer.....

Thursday, December 11, 2008

Finally my tender is done, after so many hard work and time!!!!! Hehe… next is to study for my account exam… hai!!!!!!… have not start yet and I still got 48 hours to prepare; wasted all the time in preparing the tender…. Haiz…. God PLEASE help me!!!!!!!
It was a joy to always organize gathering together… well… this month already got twice… and some of them is quite hot to meet at Christmas eve and New year eve for count down also…. Well there goes my count down this year…. I hope everyone can come… but this primary school gathering still lost in touch with 7 people…. It was a sad thing’s!!!! if you (reader) is from S.R.J.K. © Chen Moh PJ old Town 6i 1992 do contact me… 

Monday is not a public holiday for me… Haiz…. Didn’t really enjoy go to work without stuck in the jam… is seems like you are the only person working… never mind la… what to do… Chinese company… :-p In lunch time was considering what to eat… standing in front Watson PJ old town like half an hour and no idea came to my mind. Finally decided to have McDonal’s…. no question ask… still order the same value meal… Fillet –O-Shark… after eating the burger, is the time to enjoy the French fried, and suddently at this time…. A sms came in…. L my Singapore friend ask me where to get a taxi at city center!!!???? As a Malaysian it was an insult!!!! How can a tourist cannot get a Cab in city center… somemore is in Haji holiday and is just near KLCC…. Well…. No solution for it after calling the Cab center… so I planned to go there and pick her up myself…. From old town PJ McDonal’s reach KLCC Nasi Kandar Pelita at 15 mins… hehe…. Who can do that? Daniel Can…. Daniel Boleh!!!! Hehe…. Who want to challenge? Anyway… is a blessing from God she still can tell me where she is… and she is actually rushing to catch a flight…. Anyway thanks you God!!!!! Amen.

Wednesday, December 10, 2008

Sunday….. there’s no exception, morning need to go to church for recharge my spirit with God hehe!!! I like it!!! After lunch headings to PWTC for the Education fair. It was out of my expectation that not many people were there… rounding around for some information on my study, planning what’s next after my business course. Hehe… LimKOKwing is not in the fair…. Don’t is it they are not interested or what…. But overall enjoying the atmosphere of the people asking the information to plan for their future… It was great… I found some information for me as well…. Well see some friend there as well working as well!!! Oh ya!!!!! Miss Elena Tong!!!!! Pls don’t shout my name so loud, you scare people there don’t recognize me ah?!!!!!

Saturday evening it was a fun day, I experience what is actually a Shoe Shopping :-p in Mid Valley with my friend that came over from Singapore. Well she is very exciting about it, I saw her and I thought there’s no place to shop in Singapore.. haiz…. Why Singaporean keep coming over to Malaysia to shop? A lot of thing from their place is actually cheaper then here… well after meet up my friend… a fast track plan to go and watch movie, play arcade and go for the disco bowling. Well how can I bring a book worm go to arcade:-p Actually is nothing happening for them…. Look at her… she feel so boring…. After that went to bowling …. That disco bowling so expansive, and some more just like few song play and keep repeating again…. Haiz…. But the movie is nice… hehe… Wu sHu…. I enjoying it… :p

It was really a busy week for me last week, and no kidding, is really the busy. Need to make some arrangement and tidy up my tender, so it can work it out better for me. Well is been a while I did not write blog since the last blog… because is darn busy… … 
Oh…. I haven’t mention how busy I am after I writing a few sentence… well from last Wednesday onward, after I get the busy, need to prepare it, to make it more orderly… and then…… Friday, my friend from the small island coming over to KL for business trip. HEHE…. Need to accompany her through the whole weekend… intention is hope that she will be well taking care of and also feel the “welcoming” in this place. First night need to rush for a gathering in PJ ss2, so brought her to dinner at the HK restaurant in JayaOne PJ, well frankly speaking, as a people in “food ministry”(So called from my church) really discontented with the food there. The food is not really nice at all, so at the whole dinner I did not ask her anything about the food :-p (but I usually will ask my friend, but not this time.. Pai Sei.. :-P) after that heading toward the gathering… I was pissed off with the place of gathering as well. Reason is because…… I choose it :-P and is make me piss off...... is actually a café name Island café 吹吹水……what is really pissed off me is a group of us order a bucket of beer, and of course and very certain that my friend will order other food and drink as well. When the beer came reached the table (actually the beer is the first to reach among other order), they expect us to pay the total bill first. Well for me is not about the money, but if you want me to pay the total bill, I expected the order in the total bill must reach the table. But the only order in the bill that reach the table is the bucket of beer, some more my friend have to wait for other food and drink another half an hour., is not long actually, but I cannot expect I have to see all the thing’s in the table half an hour after I pay the bill. This service looks like a shit to me. Definitely is nonsense to me… but nevertheless the next time I won’t recommend my friend to go there. By the way… it was great the gathering.. I saw Mei ting… she is still the same old look…. Meaning is still that cute… hehe… after all it was a good fellowship that night!!!!! I like it!!!!!

Monday, December 1, 2008

The Quality of Fellowship









Thanks for everyone who dropping by this blog. Is always a pleasure to even share some idea and comment to everyone. Is been years I didn’t write blog; but after I read Theresa blog. I think I personally would like to share my comment, not only to Theresa, but also to every classmates in the class of 6I years 1992 @ S.R.J.K. © Chen Moh. This blog is about the feeling and comment for each and every gathering that we have done since Year 1996 till 2008. Hope you all will enjoy this blog and I hope you all can give comment as well.

After we graduated from our primary school in year 1992, our class friend has been heading to different high school to continue the study in order fulfill our destiny and purpose of our individual life. But is a blessing from God that because few of us group together and heading to the same high school; it shows that even we go to different high school, but we still can meet some of the old faces. 2 days ago, only I found out that more than one-third of our classmates are heading to Catholic high school and others two-third of the class separated to 7 different high schools. Is a God blessing that only 3 of our friend heading to different high school individually. And it is good that we can even reach back to the 3 friends that heading to different high school and join the gathering.

Talk about primary school gathering, when I mention this to other of my high school friend; they were surprise that we can still group together. It really shown that not many people will get the opportunities to meet back their primary school friend; or I would say childhood friends. But before fire get’s burning, it really needs a spark to be done. And as the time pass by, as each time we have gathering, it get more and more of our childhood friend join in. we started the gathering at year 1997, that time is was only 12 of us and until now, we have been keep in touch for most of the friend except for 7 of them. I can’t wait to meet them back.

Well…. Writing for so long… haven’t refer back to my comment about Theresa blog. This is my comment; and Theresa, do keep this in your mind: my comment for your blog is “You are not exceptional”. HAHA!!!!!! It sound annoying, but it is true; because you are not the first person who felt this way, and not the only person as well. And as a “coordinator” of the gathering, I can testify that, most of our friend felt the same way as well. Their reason of not coming out for the gathering is always because lack of communication in a long time of period, they “scare” don’t know what to say, don’t recognize the friend’s name, IT IS VERY NORMAL. But the only way to come out of this barrier is to put up away your fear and start accepting them again. As a group of friend, that has been together for several years, nothing is impossible and it is possible to make it happen. As always we have organize gathering each time, more and more people are joining in, and it shows you the proof of my quotation in result.

But this time, as I write this blog, my attention is not only for our childhood friend (S.R.J.K. © CHEN MOH, class of 6I, 1992), but also to all other schoolmates there’s from same year and same school with us, from Local Malaysia to oversea like Singapore, Australia, Hong Kong etc, they can make it happen as well; and you also. I do encourage all of ours classmate to attend the upcoming gathering as well. Don’t be so worry about what fear you are carrying or what your speech to your friend, because at the end of the day, is always a fellowship with each other. I don’t know whether am I a good ice breaker or not, but I always excited each time we can get together share information that we have. If you think of you are only closed to your friend from high school, college or your work place, then you are wrong, because you have been with your childhood friend in childhood age for 6 years, all the sweet childhood memory is from there as well. You should be getting closer to them compare to other. You have the fear because you all didn’t keep in touch for long time. I hope as our childhood friend gather each time, we can enjoy the fellowship, not about the number, but is about the quality. I encourage those people who haven’t come out for the gathering, do come out and meet us. And we can have a good chat. It will be a good experience as well for you. The following are the information the upcoming gathering event.

First Gathering

Venue: “Restaurant Taiwan beer” (don’t what’s the proper English name)

Location: Taman Cheras, cheras

Date: 3rd Dec 2008

Time: 8:00pm

**Please park your car at Maybank Area, and we will instruct you how to get there; is just walking distance.

Recommended by: Eileen Kua (风如)

Contact person for location information:

Eileen Kua

Hong Weng

Yan Sin

(it will be just a simple gathering, will be having dinner as well)

Second gathering information

Venue: Island Cafe @ SS2, PJ

Location: SS2, PJ (updated @10:48pm, 1 Dec 2008)

Date: 5th Dec 2008

Time: 9:45pm

· Do make yourself available at this time, because Theresa will be in Malaysia as well. Do have fun to gather together as well.








Wednesday, November 26, 2008

男人的脆弱与坚强

男人的脆弱与坚强

男人也有流泪的时候,也许女人对这点感到不可思议.

男人天生的脆弱和女人天生的柔弱有所不同.表面看来,男人们坚强如柱.其实,只不过是他们被生活击倒后,总会坚强地站起来.也就是说,在遇到困难时与挫折时,责任感战胜了一切.

仔细想来,男人流泪是极其正常的事,男人也是人走路时也可能碰壁,摔跤难免不皮破血流,流血了很自然男人也会悄悄地说声疼痛.

男人们钢筋铁骨的外表下,也有着一腔似水的柔情.他们渴望在疲惫的时候有个温馨的港湾,也渴望在受伤的时候接受来自一双酥手的抚慰.男人的确是伟岸的大山这大山也希望有一泓灵动的清泉;男人的的确是挺拔的巨树这巨树也希望披几颗晶莹的露珠......

生命,爱情.事业.这些已成为男人和女人时尚的话题,在其奋斗旅途上,有人感叹有人流泪......

至于女人是否怕老,我暂不下结论,但是男人怕死这点至少不算假,.随着时光一去不复返地流逝,男人会为最后的死亡一天天的逼近面害怕.由此看来对待生命的态度,相对来说也许男人比女人更为悲观.

俗话说;男儿有泪不轻弹,只是末到伤心 处.;男人为爱情流泪不流血,为正义流血不流泪,在爱情方面男人的抵抗力从一定程度上讲要比女人弱.女人因为爱而产生情,男人因为情而产生爱.情是辽阔的 永远的,而爱是单一具体深刻的.对于全身心投入的失恋的痛楚可能由深及浅的散布女人一生,却是一次性的袭击男人.因此,分手的时候,女人眼里泪流成河,男 人心里也会血流如柱.

无论对于男人和女人来说,什么是爱?爱就是让心爱的人好好的地生活,用不着海誓山盟,也不见得朝朝暮暮,平凡中的爱,最真诚;细节里的情最真实;普通里的 呵护,最能触摸对方的心灵,没有泰坦尼克号的爱情传奇,没有惊天动地的爱情,也没有生生死死的赤裸表白,挽住那双真诚真实能触摸心灵的手只要爱他就把心香 捧给她让他闻着你的芬芳一路走过平凡的日子峥嵘的岁月真情真爱的一生.

愿劝天下所有的男人和女人,生命很脆弱幸福很短暂;珍惜眼前所拥有一切珍惜缘份珍惜身边的每一个人爱的累了试着去接受一个爱你的人也是一种幸福虽然不爱他但是被他呵护着也是一种不幸福的幸福,愿天下情人终成眷属!

对于事业女人也许无所谓,而男人则全力以赴,且忐忑不安.因为在现在的社会中,男人世界的竞争异常激烈的.可以说,男人有很强的超自我性,在竞争中一旦失败了男人便有寻求孤独和沉默的倾向.

坐在孤寂相伴的黑夜里,望着相离半个世纪那么远的死神步步向自已走来,男人会害怕;伫在秋风萧瑟的丁香树下看着最爱的人儿慢慢地走出自已的生命,男人会伤心;躺在空空荡漾的木床上,想着追求多年的功名茫然无存男人会孤独,乃至逃到空想的世界中去

;男人有泪不轻弹这句话可以流传千古,的确好男儿并不是为那些鸡毛蒜皮的提不起筷子的事而流泪而是在心灵深处受到莫大的创伤和强烈震撼时才会以泪水极力平息内心的压抑.试想一个冷漠无情,不懂世故从来不知流泪为何等滋味的男人,也许叫人有点害怕.

一个真正的男子汉是会帮助自已的,几经洗涤,擦干眼泪,依然是一个坚强的男人一个敢于面对现实有抱负的男人.

所以我要说;如果你是个知书达理的女人就应该懂得一颗流血流汗也曾流泪的男人之心,请你给他们多一点点爱,我一点点温柔.温柔是男人子汉的故乡,如风,能 拂去眉头的惆怅与烦恼,似露,能滋润心田的枯萎;象绢,能拭去眼角的泪水.男人对能够理解自已的心态的女人是会敞开心扉的!

所以我要说;如果你是个懂得生活的男人,在女朋友和妻子那里就不该轻易放弃偶尔流泪的权利;也不轻易放弃这来之不易的爱情.执著的去爱去追求;同时还应该永远拥有男人的坚强......

无论是生命,爱情,事业,都不要轻易的放弃,否则对不起自已.....


(This post is for testing purpose; nevertheless, this is my first blog in Blogdrive :-) )